There has been a lot in the UK press recently about the newly published results of a study into happiness. Called the ‘Happy now report’, it suggests that the happiest ages are 16 and 70.
I’ve written before about when I was 16, “Back in ‘63” and it certainly was a good year for me.
And, now that I’m just over 70, I have to say that I am happy more often than not. Like everyone, I’ve had my share of ‘ups and downs’ over the years. I have grieved for family members and close friends who have passed away. I live with chronic illness and pain. I worked hard for most of my life and I have a very simple home. But my happiness is not based on anything physical, financial or material. It is based entirely on spending time with friends, family, or my dog, and as often as possible, being surrounded by nature. I think being over 70 brings a certain acceptance and resilience that enables me to set aside any niggling fears, anxieties and disappointments, and just ~ be happy!
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote,
“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared with what lies within us.”
This weekend for example has been wonderful. I met 2 dear friends for a walk amongst the snowdrops in Painswick Rococo gardens. We do this every year around this time and it is always a joy whatever the weather. Friday was perfect, cold but sunny with no wind. You can enjoy our photos below.
Then, on Friday evening I met another dear friend to celebrate her birthday, with a simple fish and chip supper. The company and conversation were more important than the food, although the fish and chips were divine too!
Lastly, on Saturday I had an impromptu ride on a big wheel in Cheltenham with 2 of my wonderful grandchildren and their mum and dad to see the town lit up.
Simple pleasures but honestly, they made me extremely happy.